no new tricks- just more lies

The kids SD is up to the same old tricks again.  His girlfriend got pregnant while living in Vegas after she left him when she caught him cheating on her.  She was in Vegas for months living with another man.  He bragged that he was putting his name on the child's birth certificate to help stay out of prison.  Now he's telling people that the little boy looks like my B.  How would he know?  When B was born- he was out drunk.  We couldn't find him to get him to the hospital.  One of his cousins eventually found him and he showed up - for a little bit.  Then he left for the bar and stayed out for the next week.  He was late showing up for my tubal and showed up drunk.  When I got out of the hospital, I couldn't even make the baby a bottle due to all the dirty dishes in the sink.  So, the day after having surgery, I was home doing 2 dishwasher loads of dishes and finding the cabinets - before I could sit down.  While he plopped down with a beer and then passed out.  He never once ever gave any of our kids a bottle or changed a diaper.  He was gone for the little bit that we were still together.  He drove truck for those few years and was on the road more than he was in the same town with us.  He probably only saw the kids for 30 days in those 3 years.  And before some smart ass thinks he was out "supporting his family" - he gave me an allowance of $150/ week to take care of the kids out of $1100 paychecks.  He kept the rest of the money.  My dad paid more of the kids clothes and support than he did.  And I had/ have my own income.  But, all my money went to paying bills while he pocketed about $1,000 a week for who knows what.  

Since B was 3, SD has seen him TWICE.  Once when he was fighting with his now ex-wife and he drove down to TX 5 years ago.  I let him see the kids while he was here.  The other time in 2000 when we went to court.  The judge gave him supervised visits while we were in town and during that time he picked B up by one arm and while he was dangling in the air by one arm SD was whipping his little butt for throwing a fit.  Not exactly a good memory for B.  Of course, B was being a little brat.  SD had taken the kids to a video game room and he didn't have much money.  They got enough money to play 2 games each.  B's little 5 year old self wasn't happy with that idea.  He wasn't ready to leave yet.  So he sat down on the floor and cried.  So SD picked him up off the floor with 1 arm and spanked his tail.  Hurricane and K (my daughter) were the only 2 other kids with me and they about came un-glued.  They were most unhappy.  Of course, after that incident, B wouldn't go near SD.  Even 5 years later when SD showed up in TX, B wouldn't go near him.  Of course, B didn't recognize him after that long either.  

Long story short.  He doesn't call the kids.  He doesn't send birthday cards.  He doesn't send Christmas cards.  He's out of bond for dealing cocaine to a police officer.  He's never paid support.  He needs to leave my kids name out of his mouth and not try to pretend to people that he's a "dad".  He's not.  He wants to grow up and take some responsibility then that would be a different story.  Until that time, he needs to quit lying to everyone about my kids.