Mom of many heading into empty nest syndrome- come enjoy the ride!

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Little Town in the middle of Nowhere, Texas, United States
I'm a mom of 4 boys: Jay who's 30, Jory who is 27, Tim is 25, and B is 23. I also have a daughter, Kristi who is 33. I have a grandson, Little Bit/Elmer, that was born in July 2009. I have a new grandson who was born in September of 2017. We moved from North TX to East TX on the land of our dreams in '09 and I love the peace and quiet. It's so nice to have trees again after 11 years of flat and hot. I enjoy hanging out with my friends. I'm a huge baseball fan. Some might even call me obsessed with the game. ;) My favorite teams are the Rangers and the Red Sox. Being a Red Sox fan makes life interesting as all 4 of my boys are Yankee fans. (Basically, I only started cheering for the Red Sox to give the boys a hard time and then actually became a fan) I'm a happily single (well...divorced) mom.
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Showing posts with label awards. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Honest Scrap Award

Heather over at Comparative Childhood gave me the Honest Scrap Award. Thank you so very much Heather! I am supposed to list 10 things that you probably don't know about me and then pass it along. Sounds fairly easy right? But I don't know that I have 10 things that you don't know about me. ;) Let's see what I can come up with.

1. I was a music major in high school and going into college. Had scholarship offers from several universities. I decided that I wanted to keep my music as a way to relax and not major in it in college. My instrument that got me all the awards and acclaim? The string bass. Better known as an over-grown violin.
2. I played bass on an album for a church choir when I was 17. I still have the album.
3. I got hooked on "the Young and the Restless" when I was in the hospital at 15 and still keep up with it. Mostly.
4. I am a Garth Brooks fanatic. I got pneumonia standing in line to get tickets for his last tour. Got them though. Row 13- center stage. Hurricane went with us.
5. I used to do ceramics. I had to quit when my hands quit working right but I still have a bunch of the holiday stuff around that I made and I drag it out for the appropriate holidays.
6. I don't like alcohol. I used to drink (more than enough) and Little Kings was a great friend of mine when I was in my early 20's but I lost the taste for alcohol in 1987 and haven't really had much besides a glass of wine here and there since. EXCEPT FOR...
7. When we went to Yellowstone, We ended up spending a night in a little "town" (the town consists of a gas station that sells bear and elk hunting licenses) named Muddy Gap. We parked the trailers in a field by a gas station with the 2 doors of the trailers facing each other. My friend, her hubby and I fed the 8 kids sandwiches and fruit for dinner and then opened a bottle of wine and drank the whole bottle. I got up with the sunrise and watched the sun come up over the mountains. One of my favorite memories of the whole trip.
8. I skipped a lot of college when I was supposed to be going and got my CDL license and drove truck for a while. My parents hated the whole idea but I have a wanderlust in me and still love to go see new places. I was hauling steel when most places didn't have a woman's restroom in them.
9. The wanderlust in me sometimes threatens to overwhelm me. I just want to move or go or find something new. I'm like a baby with a sucker at the thought of traveling. My head swivels around like its not attached or something. Staying in one place to do what has been best for my kids has been probably the hardest thing I've ever done. Yes! Even harder than raising 5 kids with no support and no semblance of a father figure.
10. I used to be the biggest chicken. I didn't think that I could survive without my ex. I didn't think that there was any possible way that I could do any type of decent job raising my kids by myself and I am extremely proud of what I've done and how far I've come. Even if there are days when I wonder if I've done a good job or if I've taught them anything at all. I know I gave it my best.

I have so many blogs that I love now, I don't know who to pass it on to. Well, here's 3 for you. To anyone that I didn't name.... please don't be offended. I love you all!

1. Sharon at "You're Not My Real Mom". Another mom of teenagers living the "fun" life. She knows just how much "fun" it is when they turn from little people into teenage monsters. ;)

2. Ambrosia at "Adventures of a Wicked Stepmother". I admire this woman so much! I don't know how she keeps her sanity with 3 teenage daughters and an absolutely certifiable crazy woman in the picture.

3. Minnie over at "Their Wicked Stepmother". You have to check out her blog! She gets me laughing at the best possible times. Or worst if you count the diet coke I just choked on laughing....

And to anyone I missed..... Love ya all!

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Award Day


My thanks to both Sharon at "you're not my real mom" and Georgina at "dads second whatever" for the award above. I'm supposed to write about 5 personal obsessions and then pass it on.

So....
I hope you enjoy finding these blogs and reading their posts. If they're password protected, email for a password. It's well worth the trouble.


Now on to my 5 obsessions. If I only have 5. I might have 10 or 240. I try not to think about being obsessed with anything. ;)

1. My kids - I am obsessed with my children. Making sure that they're ok and that they don't suffer from the choices that either I or SD have made. Someone asked me why I haven't dated and the answer to that would be my kids. I have never felt that I had the right to take anything away from my kids - time, attention, money, whatever. And I always felt that there wasn't enough of me to go around for them as it was without trying to take the time that it involves to work on a relationship with anyone new. Personal preference folks, please don't bite my head off over this one.

2. Baseball - I admit it. I love the game. I love to watch my boys play. I love to watch other kids play. I love watching the pro's play and it really doesn't matter what team although my favorite teams are the Rangers and the Red Sox. I love the stats, the numbers, the players. I suffer thru withdrawal when the season ends and follow the moves the teams make with free agent signings and watching the paper for articles regularly.

3. Reading - I read anything and everything. Books, blogs, the news, cereal boxes. I love to read. My favorite author is Anne McCaffrey (although her dragon rider series is now being written by her son, Todd) and have been reading the dragon rider series since I was 12. And yes, they are still coming out with new books. I got the newest ones from Vix for Christmas last year.

4. Snow globes - I collect snow globes and have them from every place that we have vacationed as well as ones that friends and family have gotten me while they travel. I try to get the mini ones but will grab one of the larger ones in a heart beat if they don't have the mini's. I have most of the mini Disney collection and grabbed more when we (Vix, Cal, and I) took the kids to Disney a few years ago. I have them from every place to Kansas (Hurricane - 14U World series) to Hawaii (friend on vacation a few years ago). I found them in Jamaica, Cozumel, and Grand Cayman when I took the boys on a cruise several years ago too. I have 2 hanging shelves above m tv and a whole cabinet with snow globes in it.

5. Pictures- My house is wall to wall pictures. Pictures from our trips to Disney, the cruise, and Yellowstone. Pictures of my kids. Baseball pictures from my kids playing. Pictures of friends and family. And now pictures of Little Bit. I am rearranging to get the family pictures up that we had done earlier this month. I love pictures.

There are my 5 obsessions. The biggest of the million I imagine I have that is. I hope y'all enjoy reading the blogs of my friends....